October 26, 2022 “In AA we talk a great deal about each other. Provided our motives are thoroughly good, this is not in the least wrong. But damaging gossip is quite something else. Of course, this kind of scuttlebutt can be well grounded in fact. But no such abuse of the facts could ever be twisted into anything resembling integrity. It can’t be maintained that this sort of superficial honesty is good for anyone. So the need to examine ourselves is very much with us. Following a gossip binge we can well ask ourselves these questions: ‘Why did we say what we did? Were we only trying to be helpful and informative? Or were we not trying to feel superior by confessing the other fellow’s sins? Or, because of fear and dislike, were we not really aiming to damage him?’ This would be an honest attempt to examine ourselves, rather than the other fellow. Here we see the difference between the use of the truth and its misuse. Right here we begin to regain the integrity we had lost.” AA Co-Founder, Bill W., August 1961, “This Matter of Honesty,”, The Language of the Heart 2022 Carry The Message Project Get your group, district, area or AA friends to join in. Carry the Message, it’s easy! To learn more, visit www.aagrapevine.org/carry-the-message AA Grapevine’s Podcast Special features will enhance each episode. The podcast is available on your favorite podcast platforms. To learn more, visit www.aagrapevine.org/podcast Follow us on these social media sites! Click here to Check Out Important Updates from AA Grapevine! If you have been sent this quote by a friend, please do not click “Unsubscribe” below or you will unsubscribe your friend. Need help with customer service? Call (800) 631-6025 (English), (800) 640-8781 (Spanish), (212) 870-3456 (French) or email: customerservice@aagrapevine.org AA Grapevine, Inc. | www.aagrapevine.org | 475 Riverside Drive, New York, NY 10115 Unsubscribe news@hagerstownaa.org Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice Sent by webcoord@aagrapevine.org